4. Good clothing will get you good food to eat.

Getting married is not easy when you don't have much. That is why maybe most couples opt not to get married.

Yeah it is not easy but it can be done. Here are the steps:

1. Prove to both of your parents that both of you are not crazy and really do love each other.

2. Get their blessings and support.

3. Find your own money for dowry (mas kawin) - never borrow or owe. In Malaysia it is normally below RM 100

4. Go and get yourself married at the nearest religious department.

5. Find yourself A GOOD PAIR OF CLOTHING to look the best. (this is when clothes are more important than food)

The difficult thing to do is the next step, "to succeed", as many will think otherwise.

While struggling to stand up again, we only have clothing which we got mostly from used apparel stores to make us look good again.

Why is it so important to look good? Well, when you don't have much, looking good is one of the thing that will make you feel good, and only when you feel good, you will have that confidence again to sit in the same room with other normal people.

#a note

Because of good clothing, we feel motivated again and start meeting people. Airbnb has always provided good food for free every time they have a meet up in K.L.

#another note

Because of feeling good, we joined a meet up organized by Selangor Writers Association and had free good food and made some good friends too..

#Airbnb